The answer, my friends, is “yes.” I’m not going to spill a lot of digital ink here. If you say “yes” too much, you probably already know it. You know the reasons to stop. You know what everyone says about self-care. You worry about going too far in the new direction and becoming selfish. You know who you are and you know to take time to think about why you can’t say “no” and how to get a handle on it.
If you never say yes, and if that’s because you’re a selfish jerk, I’m not talking about you.
Most beautiful souls say “yes” too much. So knock it off a little.